Is that your ghost or are you really there?

While watching one of my favourite trashy shows, Tough Love in Miami, I came across a problem which almost all of us will encounter, lingering feelings. We all know that the first time that we talk to an ex after a break up things are up in the air, we go through the phase of "Maybe I rushed this break up through," or our forever favourite, "Did I make the wrong choice?" As most of you know, I especially hate it when I make mistakes, even if I can fix them. I guess you have to remember why you ended things, don't romanticize the problems and move forwards. If you can't do that with them, you made the right choice.