Darling don't be afraid.

It's alarming how easily people are saying I love you these days. I always believed that you only said I love you when you are over the moon, missing someone so much it hurts, breath taking kind of attachment, I believe that saying those three words will bind you to that person, saying them will mean they will break you, they will tear you apart, tendon and bone. I only ever said it once and it is an experience I will never forget. Until I am sure it won't hurt, I'm keeping those words to myself so they mean something, not saying it to someone I have been seeing for 2 weeks.