Part of Me.

There is so much that we can't control, natural disasters, illnesses but what we mess up the things we can control something is wrong. We all get to the stage where enough is enough, some have a lower tolerance than others.

Today a very good friend pointed out to me that if you aren't happy somewhere you should change it. We put too much pressure on ourselves to do everything perfectly and to please everyone else instead of worrying about what is important to us. Saying that behaviour stops today is naive and unrealistic but that doesn't mean that we should put it off.

Sometimes we don't realise what we are dealing with until we talk to someone who is dealing with something much worse. It may hurt now but nine out of ten times the pain will fade. Unless you let the one person go who could have meant everything you need to pick up the pieces and find someone else. You are in control and don't let anyone else tell you differently.